[转载] 男人致命45个秘密 女人渴望知道

1、男人很容易喜欢一个女人，却不轻易深爱一个女人。
2、男人在感情的王国里，绝对是个昏君。女人只要肯奉承，他什么都答应。
3、男人普遍喜欢外表温柔的女子，宁愿把精力花在事业或其他地方，也不愿全用来征服女人。
4、男人都不太重视对自己太好的女人。
5、男人都怕女人死缠烂打，但喜欢用同样的方式对付没追上的女人。
6、男人的梦想之一，是拥有可以超越友谊界限的红颜知己。
7、男人会以很理性的态度取舍爱情，就算他感性上很爱一个人，但当他清楚她并非一个好妻子时，他会放弃她，另找合适家居生活的那一个。男人认为恋爱和结婚是两回事，很多时候，他拖延结婚，根本原因就是他认为身边的女人不是想像中的好妻子。
8、男人对妻子的要求，可能比对恋人更低——在外型上，在性格上则更高。
9、懂得欣赏聪明女人的男人不多，和她们在一起，男人总觉得缺乏安全感受。

10、当有喜欢的女人在场时，男人会有如下表现：话多；显得聪明些；比平日慷慨；会把话题扯到得意成就上；会刻意显露平时少见的好心肠；多说一些自以为好笑的笑话引大家发笑。
11、一个男人同时是大男人和小男人的化身。大男人的他，希望女人完全迁就他，令他放心；小男人的他，意识到自己懦弱无能的一面，犹豫不决。说穿了，他们很多都是忌妒心重的小器鬼，又像孩子般容易被哄骗。
12、男人追求女人的时候愿意割舍一切自由，追到了越来越感到自由的重要性。
13、男人内心隐藏着狩猎心态，追捕，得到后就要驯服她，让她变成可在家饲养的乖乖动物。
14、男人都有爱当英雄的自大心态，所以很容易爱上向他诉苦的女人。
15、男人希望身边的女人明白：带着同一个女人去所有地方，实在是一件很闷的事(或许女人也这样觉得吧，只是不好意思说)，所以和其他女人适度约会，是调剂和放松，完全可以没有其他企图。
16、两性关系中，女人需要男人告诉她，他愿意为她做任何牺牲，男人则需要女人告诉他，他很能干。
17、男人自以为是的多情，常常是女人眼中不折不扣的薄幸。
18、在男人心底，亲热到哪个程度，就是和女人的恋情发展到什么程度。
19、男人每隔一段时间，就有情绪和体力跌到谷底的几天，不想见任何人，躲起来翻翻书，听听音乐，看看影碟或狂打电玩发泄。
20、有过恋爱经验的男人都知道：女人是不能不骗的，类似像：“我会永远爱你”，“我一直都会像现在这样疼你”，“什么时候需要我，一个电话我就立刻赶来”，“我以后再也不会像爱你这样去爱另外一个人”这种话是必须要说但永远坚持不了的“骗话”，谁让女人这么爱听呢！
21、男人遇上旧情人多半会自作多情，以为与自己有过感情的人，内心总会保存一份情，幻想爱过他的女人永远爱他。女人只会美化眼前的男人，男人 却不自觉地美化逝去的恋情。所以男人比女人更认同：分手还是朋友。不管是甩人还是被甩，男人多半愿意与前女友继续保持联络。
22、女人在意男友以前的女友，男人却在意女人离开他后找个什么样的男友。如果分手后仍是朋友的，他会时不时批评她的男友。
23、男人跌入爱河，很少问她的过去，不太关心她和哪种男人谈过恋爱，因为男人较注重女人的外表——外表就是现在。
24、男人不愿听心上人的旧恋情，因为一想到自己爱的人之前和其他男人有过肌肤之亲，就难以忍受。
25、面对两个对自己有爱意的人，女人会在徘徊中选择，男人不会为此烦恼——他其实只想同时追上两个人呢！
26、男人爱上一个女人，不一定对她有强烈的亲热冲动，反倒对一些他只是喜欢而不爱的女人，冲动更大些。
27、男人很容易被女人吸引，但他分得出哪种渴求出于性还是爱，大概知道能从她身上得到什么。
28、女人主动示爱，对男人来说，唯一的损失就是缩短了那段朦朦胧胧，若有若无的浪漫日子。
29、男人害怕结婚——其实真正害怕的不是婚姻这回事，而是婚礼的繁琐过程和女人的挑剔要求。
30、不少男人第一眼爱上女人的背后，其实隐藏着单纯而不可告人的目的：第一眼看见她就想和她有肌肤之亲。只是为了得到她们，他们吃力地陪她们先玩女人喜欢的浪漫游戏。
31、男人看到喜欢他的女人跟其他男人稍微热情一点，即使是朋友般的拥抱或亲吻，心里也会不舒服，知道她被人追求更会妒忌，因为骨子里男人不想输给任何人。
32、男人相信证明自身出色的重要表现之一是：拥有更多的女人。事业上越出色的男人，往往需要更多女人的仰慕和倾心以体现他的超凡脱俗。
33、男人在分手问题上拖泥带水，其实是想把去留的难题丢给女人，减少自己决定带来的内疚感。
34、男人说的“未来”是6个月到1年时间，女人的定义则可以是10年到50年。当男人爱上一个女人，他只会想像如何在短暂的未来与她亲密发展；女人则幻想到恋爱，结婚，生孩子乃至如何白头到老。
35、男人基本是都小器，大方是装出来的。表面上他们不拘小节，其实内心和女人一样，计算得清清楚楚。
36、女性较容易坦白心事，男人恰恰相反。遇到烦恼，他们找个别好友倾诉时，不会说得很完整，总会给自己留最后一点面子。男人的倾诉都是经过包装或刻意切碎的，不让一个人知道全部。这也是女人很难了解男人的原因——他们根本不想被人彻底了解。
37、一个男人可以爱上两个女人，但究竟喜欢哪个多一点，他多半分不清楚。
38、男人看待婚外情比女人实际，因为他有更多机会涉及婚外情，而且他心里明白——花心隐藏在男人的天性中。
39、男人要变心，其实和女人是否注意保持美丽仪表没直接关系，那只是他的借口之一。当他厌倦一个女人，不管她多漂亮，只要是她以外的任何女人，他都觉得比她有吸引力。
40、成熟男人对于崇拜他的少女，抵抗力是相当弱的。
41、男人年纪越大，择偶越随心所欲，乃至不顾他人的任何想法。
42、对许多男人来说，真爱意味着——爱情减去性。换句话，男人只要觉得女人缺乏性的吸引力，就可以一直跟她做单纯的朋友。
43、男人在有寻求亲热的身体冲动那一刻，对异性的要求忽然降低，他会觉得一个平时普通的女人很可爱，甚至很性感。不过等冲动一旦消退，他立刻恢复了习惯的审美判断。
44、男人对女人的爱总是混合了生理冲动，亲热前他觉得女人什么都好，之后却可以无半点留恋，但为了不背负太多罪恶感，他们可以装作温柔地在事后继续吐露缠绵的情话。
45、男人很容易爱上卖弄风情，看起来唾手可得的女人，因为他觉得有更多机会触摸。

读后感言：很确实的真相。。。哈哈！

Passport

Just now went to Immigration office to do passport but it didn't went smooth. The reason is that I'm sarawakian. There are some rules to differentiate the procedures and documents needed between those who born in east Malaysia and west Malaysia.

For people who born in east Malaysia, we need to prepare birth certificate (original and 2 photocopies) as well as mykad (original and 2 photocopies). The officer said that they need 1 copy to send to east Malaysia and wait for their approval. This process usually takes about 5 working day.

I didn't bring my birth certificate so have to do it another day else. Sigh... What a waste of time. But thanks to the officer who told me that. Hope they can put this information on their website. It would definitely helps.

Exploring Mac

I'm currently started to explore Mac OS. I've been impressed by the graphical parts of the operating system long time ago. I not consider myself as an apple fans, but just would like to know more about it. Everyone likes something cool and impressive, right?
It's a totally new field for me to explore and I think, it will be challenging as well. I hope I can get through it. Another reason why I'm exploring Mac OS is that, I will be having a presentation on mobile computing around mid of Oct this year. I would like to present on something related to iOS, maybe something related to apps development . So to start off, I think Mac OS is the right path to go...

I don't have Mac Book, how I gonna start to install Mac OS on my PC? Fortunately, there is a great article describing how it can be done in PC. The link to that article is http://www.sysprobs.com/install-mac-snow-leopard-1063-oracle-virtualbox-32-apple-intel-pc. Basically, by following the steps provided there, you can successfully install Mac OS on your PC (running on VirtualBox, a virtual machine). My RAM usage hitting almost the peak when I'm running the VirtualBox. Damn.... Out of resources... I'm force to repair my old PC which I left off for more than 1 year... After that, I will reinstall the VirtualBox together with Mac OS on that PC. Hope it works...

The source that I have is not the latest Mac OS Lion though, but I think it would be sufficient for me to get started. I've just finish this first step, and there are more to come. Hopefully, there will be some output by the month of Oct.

Putrajaya Hot Air Balloons Fiesta 2011

Yesterday, I went to Putrajaya Hot Air Balloons Fiesta with my colleagues. This event has been held for 3 years at the same location. For those who don't know what this event is all about, you can visit to the event's official website at http://www.myballoonfiesta.com/.

The main purpose for me to go there is to shoot photos! But, unfortunately, it was a bad weather yesterday. It rain from the morning until evening. Even though the rain stopped in between, but the sky was dark and there is no sunlight. It is a pain for photographers because without efficient light, it is hard to capture nice photos.

The only thing I'm glad of is the rain stopped at the right time. When the hot air balloons are going to be flied off, the rain stopped. My colleague and I were able to go in to the area to shoot some photos. However, that area is guarded by security and only people with DSLR is able to get in. Yes, only DSLR!!! Can it consider as a privilege to the DSLR owners? Hahaha... For those without big cam, can still capture the photos from outside that area. You can also queue up to buy ticket for a ride in the hot air balloons or even helicopter. But the queue was very long and 1 of my colleauge which went earlier, queued for half an hour and the person in charge told them the tickets are SOLD OUT!!! Anyway, those balloons that you are allow to get in are tethered and they don't fly high.

We didn't manage to shoot all the participated hot air balloons because it took quite some time to prepare for the fly. Some featuring hot air balloons like star wars and doraemon were set up late. When they finally set them out, the sky turned dark and people who without flashgun like me, can only sigh... But I'm glad that we did wait until the rain stopped to shoot some photos. 1 of my colleague gave up and went back earlier.

Ok, here's some photos from the event:

For the complete set of photos, I've uploaded them to my photo sharing site here http://myd5000photos.shutterfly.com/

文章分享 - 12 项事情让你学会不Emo-ing

在面书上看到朋友分享的。感觉很悲，但却很真实。

1、学会冷血，只对对我好的人好，对某些人，简直就是浪费感情又浪费时间。
2、学会比以前快乐，即使难过，也要微笑着，让别人看不穿你的伤心。
3、学会孤独，没有谁会把你当宝护着，要知道世界总是孤单的，地球也只有一个啊，它都寂寞那么久了，我们算什么。
4、学会坚强，其实一个人也可以活得漂亮，笑给别人看，哭给自己听就好。
5、学会忍耐，该闭嘴就闭嘴，该沉默就沉默。
6、学会珍惜，知心的朋友已经不多，如果再走，就真的只剩下自己了。
7、学会视而不见，恶心的东西选择忽视，厌恶的东西选择屏蔽，不会再有人让我不快乐。
8、学会满足，所谓知足常乐。想想小时候一颗糖果就可以开心一整天了。
9、学会独立，不能再一味的麻烦别人，自己的事自己做。
10、学会长大，不能再那么任性，那么幼稚，那么孩子气，多了会惹人厌的。
11、学会认真，认真的对人，认真的对事。
12、学会慎重，不该认识的人不要认识，不该插手的事不要插手。

Photos - FGS Dong Zen Temple - Lit Up The Lights

Last night went to FGS Dong Zen Temple (東禪寺) located at Jenjarom. It is a very famous Chinese temple and tourist spot and to me, it is like the Kek Lok Si temple at Penang.
Every time during Chinese New Year, the temple is decorated with very beautiful lights and lanterns with a theme. This year, the theme is 巧智慧心. Not surprisingly, when I went there last night, the temple was crowded with people who came to take photos and for praying as well. I took some photos too as that is my main purpose going there =]

Other photos can be viewed at my photoblog here

iPhone 4 Tips - Remove Photos Imported From PC

Last few days, I accidentally imported some unwanted photos from my dad's pc into my iPhone4. There's around 590 photos imported. The annoying thing is that those photos cannot be removed like any other photo taken using iPhone4 itself (I'm using iOS 4.2.1). However after some googling, I found a solution in a forum discussion.

Basically, what we need to do is just to re-sync our iPhone using iTune by choosing some settings as highlighted in image below:

After selecting the settings, go to File menu on the top left menu and choose "Sync ..." and that's it. The photos are being removed!

Just wonder why those photos cannot be removed the same way as the photos taken using iPhone itself. A little bit annoying and disappointed.

Photoshop Tips - Photoshop Action

Photo editing can be very time consuming especially when you have hundreds (or even thousands!) of photos that you took during gathering with friends, events or any other photo shooting functions. Sometime, I'm so lazy and kind of phobia when see the raw photos out there waiting for post editing. But recently, I found a very useful feature inside photoshop. That cool feature is called photoshop action (when you save it, it will have .atn extension to the file). This feature is really awesome!

With photoshop action, you can save up a lot of time on the post editing. It basically record down your steps / actions performed when you editing the photo. You can then save the steps to an .atn file, which you can use it to process series of photos with same effect, same tone and same feel. Besides saving the photo editing time, you can standardize the photos tone, or the theme that you want for particular event. Let's say for example, you are taking photos for wedding event, you can create an action file with memorable sepia theme (credit to the tutorial author for the memorable sepia feel). You can then apply that same action to the rest of the photos for the same event by just play back the action file you created. Simple and easy huh?

Happy photo editing!